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As someone who used to produce publicly advertised sex parties in a rural community for working class people of all identities with all kinds of bodies (all 3 of us hostess-producers were fat women who wouldn't be allowed in high status city parties), I really appreciate this contrast. You confirmed my assumption that while some intentions may be similar, the rich folks aren't having the same experience. The Chelsea party sounds magical.

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i'm so glad to hear that, and it sounds like what you're doing is amazing too! i've been to a lot of events i can't afford as "press" and i can honestly say the vibe diminishes when you reach a certain level of pay-to-play, which was kind of liberating for me to realize

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This is such an awesome and intriguing experience! I was so glued to your story and when I got to this part - "As the sun starts to rise, I learn who had a bad day, who’s doubting themselves, who’s experienced a recent win, and who’s struggling with money or love." - I knew you had a good night!

I think you've got it spot on with the ability to self express without judgement. That seems to be a rarity these days.... the spaces that allow people to just be. Sometimes most of us don't even have that in our own home.

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I've never read anything like this before but I really liked it!! Well done

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Outstanding writing and story.

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ahh thank you so much!

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This is such an awesome and intriguing experience! I was so glued to your story and when I got to this part - "As the sun starts to rise, I learn who had a bad day, who’s doubting themselves, who’s experienced a recent win, and who’s struggling with money or love." - I knew you had a good night!

I think you've got it spot on with the ability to self express without judgement. That seems to be a rarity these days.... the spaces that allow people to just be. Sometimes most of us don't even have that in our own home.

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“expressionless faces” is a nice touch. Sex party, or reception for the Romanian ambassador?

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hard to say...

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